Numbers 5
This chapter gives lengthy and specific instruction for dealing with suspected infidelity. It brings the sin of infidelity on the woman’s part or jealousy on the man’s out into the open, the first step in healing. The ancients often looked to trial by ordeal to determine guilt. In the Enlightenment we gave up our relationship with the mystical in favor or scientific method. So, this kind of trial seems ridiculous, especially when the ordeal is extreme. The spirit and material world were more intertwined in the ancient mind and God gave instruction they understood and could believe in. Now modern research is discovering the power of the mind this seems less anachronistic.
Why is the woman the only one to undergo trial and bear consequences of infidelity? Her husband and lover are of no concern. This double standard spans the ages. Is it a consequence of Eve tempting Adam? The suffering of all earth’s women is certainly commensurate with the destruction Eve brought into the world through her rebellion. Christ says marriage does not exist in eternity. (Luke 20:35) He will put the double standard to rest and judge accordingly.
I look forward to it! Lord Jesus, come quickly!